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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Love is not rude

Well day 6 is complete. So far things are going great. Today I needed to ask him what 3 things are that I do that irritate him. I was not to defend myself. Well go figure the first was biting my nails. Which I am trying to stop. I've kept them painted for over a week now. Go me! Two was that no matter how hard he tries I still get on his case. Three was shutting down when we start fighting, which he said he was partly to blame for since he tends to yell. I am learning a lot about myself. I am also trying very hard to correct these issues that I have.

I signed up for a Netflix free trial the other day and have started watching Breaking Bad and Weeds. Yes I know i'm a tad behind but I can't help it. Its very addicting.

Friday, July 13, 2012

Love is kind

Day 2 complete. On top of saying nothing negative you add on an act of kindness. So even though I get told last minute that I need to take one of the dogs to the vet I didn't say anything and I even made him breakfast without asking. So far so good!

Now i'm getting ready for pizza night with one of my favorite boys. Were going to watch Couragous tonight. I'm praying the twinkies go to bed early tonight. They have been whiny and cranky all day. I took them all out to go for a walk and then put the twins in the pack and play while Jaxon rode his bike around. All they did was scream and wanted to be held. I thought this would get better now that I am home all the time but its not. And they are now screaming again so until next time gang!

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Love is patient

So today I started The Love Dare. So far so good. Do not say anything negative about your spouse. It was going great up until 8:30p. I put the twins to bed and then came back down. Tyler took this opportunity to start playing zombie with Jaxon, which in turn made him become a mad man. I stuck with it though. I keep my calm even though I wanted to scream at him and ask him why he would wait until I put the twins to bed to start this. Its amazing how many little things are said in one day that fall into that catergory. I am determined to stick with it and finish it this time. I am also trying to stop biting my nails, which is very hard. I've kept them painted for a week now, but still find them in my mouth numerous times a day. I am also 2lbs from my pre pregnancy weight with the twins. It is kind of bittersweet. They are nursing less and that is why I am finally losing. I am dreading the day when they decide they no longer want their nummy's. They are only 10mos though so i'm praying we do have longer. Here is to the start of the new me.